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08 May 12 #329339 by Annie1000
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Thank you so much for all the support you have given me through out this case xxx

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08 May 12 #329343 by hadenoughnow
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Annie

When you are standing in court, just imagine all of us in there with you. We are there in spirit.

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09 May 12 #329497 by Annie1000
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Hi
The big day is over. I got to question grandmother and she had to be polite to me which was almost worth 18 months of stress.
She was caught out in many lies, even the judge pointed out the animosity shown against me and the emotional impact on Grace and then went on to make an order for contact as his mother says the father needs it!
Someone told me they cant take it back to court for a year. will we have a year of peace?
They have been told to stay out of contact but I know they wont listen and will do as they please.
You can lie and cheat and then dangle your disabled son in front of the judge and get what you want.e
The courts are for people who get legal aid or have money.
Thanks again for all the`support and good advice I have had throughout this.

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09 May 12 #329500 by Fiona
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Right, so there is an order for you to take your daughter to your ex for contact but no condition for them to be involved? So there is no need for them to be around when there is contact which sounds like a fair result to me. Well done. :)

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09 May 12 #329502 by hadenoughnow
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Annie

I am so glad you got through it all ...
I hope for your - and your daughter''s sake - that they keep away from contact. It does sound like they will no longer be able to dictate terms ... and their presence is not required.

Does the order specifically exclude them from involvement?

I know contact for you and your daughter is very hard because of your ex''s condition .. but hopefully it should be less challenging without their interference. You can monitor how things go ... and if it is not working out then you can go ask for the support of Cafcass and go back to the judge and ask for changes...


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09 May 12 #329503 by Annie1000
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They have been told to stay away but that did not stop her before. I have always admired how she never lets reality cloud her view of things. She will be putting pressure on the carers so that she has control of venues. At least it was good to see her squirm when I asked her about the many lies she has told.
Thanks for advice about CAFCASS, hopefully i can use what they said in their report if they drag me back to court first opportunity they get.

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09 May 12 #329506 by hadenoughnow
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Annie,

I think you need to make sure the carers are aware that she has been told by the court not to be involved.

I can see no reason why she should be told anything about where and when contact takes place. Surely this would be a breach of confidentiality?

This is about your daughter seeing her father ... and if necessary you may have to ask the judge to ORDER her to butt out.

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