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16 Oct 12 #361297 by BIGFOOT600
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The next court hearing has been established and that my ex has now moved further away and settled in. I went to see my solicitor yesterday he wants me to request a contact session in the format of a contact centre and a limited amount of time being spent with my son. I am requesting that any further contact with my son should be that of school holiday time in to where my son stays with me for a couple of days as there is no real establisment of any bond. I have recently requested the information regarding my sons new school but it has been refused on the basis that my ex hs been led to believe I tried to source her home address details theough the school which is totally untrue.

Anyway I have decided not to attend this court hearing as my health is currently a issue. The last post I made on here I mentioned that CAFFCAS was due to be involved in which nothing has been established yet due to my ex moving to a different area. According to my ex''s new partner my son is reluctant to see me on the basis of that he feels the new partner is his dad and if I give up this partner of my ex is going to apply for adoption of my son in which I far from want to happen

I am hoping that the hearing will go ahead in my abscence on this occasion that I am yet to find out. I am being represented by a councel. Its just that I just wondered if anyone can help me out on what to address the Judge with in my absence in order for things to progress rather than go back to 1-2 hour supervised contact in which in the area my ex is no living does not accomodate such facilities.

I thank everyone who can give me advice

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22 Oct 12 #362286 by WhiteRose
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22 Oct 12 #362293 by rubytuesday
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Why haven''t you requested that the hearing is postponed to a later date if your health is an issue?

Simply not turning up will not look good :s

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22 Oct 12 #362296 by BIGFOOT600
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Hi Rubytuesday...

I could of postponed it but I am not to sure how long my health issue is going to be a problem with the right meds I might be able to cope. As far as I am aware the hearing went ahead in my adbsence I am yet to find out the details. What was suggested is that CAFCASS get involved now and leave it in there hands as to how things progress

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