Wondered if this has happened to anyone else? I am half divorced, have Nisi not Absolute. I have 3 children living with me most of the time, they see their father every onther weekend for 2 nights, plus one week night every other week. he pays through CSA as I dont trust him to pay me, he has pretty good job, but a few debts. Anyway, for the second time in 2 years he has claimed he has overpaid me and is reclaiming £1400. I have remained in house and work part-time, paying mortgage, bills etc etc - he never gives me anything extra for Birthdays/Xmas/back to school.
Other divorced friends have never experienced this level of pettiness, and the feeling seems to be that maintenance is maintenance. I can''t get anywhere with the CSA. We did financial
mediation 2 ywars ago, and I am looking for a new solicitor to renegotiate settlement and get absolute. Can I prevent this situtation happening again, its so upsetting when I have to budget very carefully ongoing, to lose 50% of my money for 3 months!! Thank you