Lulu,
Thanks for your reply.
Strangley enough my wife has just decided to let me take the kids to nursery again. I'm not sure what changed her mind, but I'm pleased.
To answer your question we had our ups and downs when I used to collect the kids but on the whole everything was ok. But as soon as the
Decree Nisi came through she went a bit funny by calling me all the time threatening me and threatening to come to my work to show me up etc... Her behaviour to me and others around me was getting increasingly disturbing so in pure desperation I had to call the Police who had a word with her. Since then she has refused to talk to me or see me. I know it was a drastic step but I feared someone else might involve the Police and take things further.
Anyway, as I cannot communicate with my wife in any form....and I've tried text messages and emails along with phone calls...it is becoming increasingly hard for me to see an end to this. I'm due to move into rented accomodation soon and my major concern is that my parents will still have to go out of their way to collect the kids when I will be about 1/2 mile down the road....
Anyway I'll keep you posted on how it goes......