I'm not sure what I should do about this situation. I am waiting for the Decree Absolute so just about officially divorced. I have a son 13yo who makes his own arrangements to see his Dad. This has arisen as the dad refuses to communicate in anyway with me about the children. On occassion I have written to him regarding them (schooling and contact) and sent these letters recorded delivery(there have been two sent in 2yrs), but they have never been acknowledged and no answers given to the questions asked. As you can imagine this is very difficult especially when I know he needs to be informed of matters relating to his children and I am going on holiday with son in a couple of weeks, I am reluctant to send a letter. I'm very unhappy about son making own arrangements with dad as son has apergers syndrome and sees things in a very black/white way. I have also sent numerous solicitors letters re contact as I do want dad in their lives. However he has ignored all requests for his proposals to see son and like I have said contact is initiated and arranged by my son. The dad has never initiated phone calls or contact with son. Is there anything I can do? By the way my other son lives with dad and gf.
Unfortunately, it is up to him to be the parent he wishes to be. All you can do is be supportive of your son, which you so obviously are, so he will have at least one very loving and excellent parent in you.