In the middle of divorce as you know, both myself and s2bx are still in the marital home.
My friends are all getting ready to party with the Christmas office do's around the corner and I have been invited to two events so far in the city which I do not know whether or not to attend.
I want to go, believe me I need to laugh and have a good time, but both would involve a night away from home and my children. I know my ex would be here, but my concern is that it may be seen to be detrimental to me as I have stated I am (statement of arrangements) the primary carer for my kids?
Does anyone know of anything that says if I stay away for a night will my ex have brownie points against me in any residency order that he may later start. He is already stating that he wants to stay in the mh with the kids and believe me I am going nowhere either, but something has to give somewhere along the way surely??
i was in mh before i left and had many a weekend away... glad i did cos he never has kids now. You are entitled to a life and it wont go against you
get your glad rags on and go for it..do you good
love loobs x