Firstly, welcome to wiki, I am sure that you will find the help, support and advice here benefical.
I have just noticed your post, otherwise I would have replied sooner - sorry.
I am unsure of the legalities of providing contact details whilst on holiday, but I would have thought thought that both parents would exchange such details, for peace of mind. I have been apart from my children's father for 7 years, and have found knowing where my daughters are on holiday useful, we can look together on the internet at the places they are going to, and show them on a map where they will be going to, etc.
If she requires to have full contact details of where you are on holiday, it is unreasonable of her to withhold the same information, espcially when taking the children out of the country.
I hope that you work things out, and have had a great holiday!
Thanks for the advice. We HAVE been setting a good example from Day1, exactly as you say, but it starts to wear thin after a while. I wish she would set a good example to the kids - not putting her fist through the front door & getting arrested would have been a start.
I could understand her behaviour a bit if I had "stolen" her husband from her, but she left him ( and the kids ) for another man a year before I came along. I think her problem is that she has had 3 boyfriends since she left & is now on her own yet again.
How was the holiday?
It sounds as though this woman has some issues, and is trying to make life as difficult for you and your fiance as possible. Im guessing that the holiday contact details are just part of the picture?
The chatroom is a good place for support, advice and just to let off some steam and have a good old rant - hope to see you there sometime.