Well, if I remember rightly she already agreed to the Wednesday change at
mediation so that should be a moot point really as its what happens now? Its perfectly reasonable to tell the judge that you agreed to it previously in order to get some contact re instatetd, but it wasnt ever to be long term, I dont believe any judge would want someone to lose their job etc.
As you know we have struggled all along and I have to say we are pleased to have the back up of a CAFCASS report even if it took too long!
The only thing I would say about the weekend contact, and its only my thoughts, is that to have him every Friday night means mum could never for example take him away for a weekend. Possibly if you are already having him on alternate weekends then extending that weekend instead, and explaining that you would like for him to have quality time with both of you would be better, and maybe more settled and in fact fun for him if he spent Fri to Mon morning with you?
I could be wrong but from my experiences on here, and a very in depth discussion with the Cafcass officer in our case, this did seem to be the preferred option.
Just a thought...