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26 May 12 #333193 by sami.1974
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Hi, my partner and me have split up after 5 years due to allegations of dv which she has made, of which ss were involved due to her ex partner with dv !! I have not been in trouble with the police bar this, one charge was dropped by them and the new one is pending court

As it stands, I don''t live in the family house, contact with her or my 2 kids because of bail conditions

This is where the problem lies, as the 2 incidents have happened within a month, ss have moved her to the otherside of the country, she is not allowed contact with me because she is hi risk now ( even with my conditions which I stuck to on both occasions )

Have got her to sign a document stating that I''m not allowed contact with my kids, especially with my 5 year old step son as I''m not his real dad and my 5 month old is at risk of me.

We don''t want to get back together, but I wanna see my kids, which I don''t know when this will be !!!

All of this has been done with out contacting me , how can they do this !!!

I''ve got a solicitor appointment on Monday and had finally got the ss to meet me ( as the worker has made all his decisions without meeting me ! ) in the afternoon, do I still go to this.

Sorry it''s so long but it''s all a mess, has anyone else had a similar situation and what can I expect ???

Any help is much appreciated :o)

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