Always made to look the bad guy?

Hey everyone,

So my ex has turned at the door to collect our daughter this morning after asking weeks ago if he could swap days so he can play golf and see her tomorrow. After agreeing i made lots of wonderful plans for me and my daughter for today. Now i''m the bad parent because i refuse to give up my plans because ex has changed the goal posts without letting me know!! Que ex blocking my drive for half an hour whilst he rings new gf to call me all the names under the sun because he got it wrong!! Did he ask to see her on one of the bank holidays instead? No! Just grumbled he''ll see her next weekend and stormed back to the car.

Getting increasingly fed up of all of this. Does anyone else feel like this?

I read this forum and get increasingly frustrated at all the posts from dads fighting so hard to see their kids, when my daughters dad barely bothers! Gets on my nerves that he''s such a waste of space!!

Rant over!!!

I think it''s fair that you didn''t change your plans. Its guys like him that give guys like us a run for our money on this forum.

I agree you are spot on. What if you had already gone out? I am all for flexibility but just turning up without arrangement after already swapping days is a bit rich!

Hugs sounds such a lovely bloke and an imature gf to boot. As long as you are not blocking his contact you are in the right, his actions make him look petty and cruel.
Hope you had a lovely day out.