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15 Jun 12 #336960 by blonde cazza
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After having 17 months of horrible letters from my ex demanding contact...he turned up for contact tonight and guess what the man who hasnt spoken for 17 months spoke suddenly wants to talk...to sort the issues of contact out....why you may ask...i did it seems this man has ran out of money:laugh: and cant afford to take me to court!.
This is a guy who didnt think when i had to find thousands of pounds for solicitors fees to answer silly letters like taking my son on holiday...who wouldnt attend mediation...because he felt it would get no where but now wants to talk.
The funniest thing that made my night was why does extra contact have to be during the week...he has him fri to sun anyway...seriously has this man got a brain!

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15 Jun 12 #336986 by perin123
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Cazza,I wouldn''t try to work him out, I''ve been doing that with my ex and have given up!

My ex did similar. No contact with me, wasn''t allowed to talk, text, email him for ages. Yet, when it suited him, he could talk, text and email me!!!

Sometimes when he picks up our son he gives me the evils and ignores me, next time he speaks to me like we''re old friends....

Bi polar? Who knows, I do know however he has narcissistic traits, maybe that''s it!!??

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15 Jun 12 #336991 by blonde cazza
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Yes very weird Perin.Ive just cant get over him after spending thousads of pounds money which he knew i didnt have for contact he wanted and now doesnt do! beyond belief

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