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stbx ignored the children.

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09 Jul 12 #342015 by whichwaytuturn
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thank you for your Drdaddy.

it makes no sense to me whatsoever either. I dont know why he is angry with me if thats the reason. he has what he wants his new life with OW, i dont contact him at all. I have never asked him for anything more money wise than what he is legally obliged to pay in maintenance. I am even divorcing him because thats what he wants.

Yes at the beginning when my world that id known for 20+ years crumbled i did say things to him which looking back now i shouldnt have but that was never to do with the children.

They are his children who he once adored and would have done anything for. hopefully before its too late he can be there again.

As for instances re OW. If she is making difficult for him to see his children. she knew he was married with children as she worked with him and has met us on occasions at work related get togethers. In my opinion you do not start a relationship with someone if you are not willing to take on his children least of all have an affair, but if thats the case he should be a man and tell her that he is seeing his children. All along he has put her before the children now before he loses his children for good he should step up and be a dad. just like he was before.

It makes me so sad to see my children upset and im sure it upsets him too but it is of his own making and he needs to stop now.

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