hi all...i have just joined the forum, glad to be a member, i really am glad just for any support these days. i left my wife in january this year, she has restricted access to both of my children, i have a contact order hearing next week and hopefully will be able to get somewhere with formalising and increasing access with my 7 year old daughter. 2 months after leaving my wife i met someone else, since then my son who is 12 wont see me at all, he has been heavily influenced by his mother, poisoned i would say. i was given an ultimatum by my ex and my son that if i didnt leave my partner, my son will never see me again.....i have done what they asked and left my partner, i have devastated her and broke my own in heart in the process but my children are my world and i will do anything to put things right with my son.....not even sure why i am writing this...suppose i just dont know what else to do to try and say to my son that i am his dad, always been his dad, and please just let me be your dad.