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Hi, I know that my reaction to finding out gf is pregnant is not normal, first thoughts are off sorted out shared residence order. And yes we are still together,
Spent 3 years battling lies and obstructions for shared residence of my 2 kids. Worst time of my life which I cannot go through again. GF said she''s pregnant and all I can think is if we split I''ve got to do it again. I don''t think emotionally and mentally I could cope with it again.
I asked her what kind of arrangement she''d agree IF we ever split up, (advice to all men - that is not the best response when gf says she is pregnant). She of course reluctant to discuss it but I really feel I need some arrangement in place even if just to get rid of that fear.
Is there any way we could agree to a shared parenting arrangement, have it signed in front of solicitor so it carries similar weight to a court order? ust so I know where I stand should it all go wrong?
But right now my ONLY concern is having another child that I have to spend three years fighting for...
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