Contact progress and Couple questions

Hello I really have no clue whatsoever how about to write that letter to her solicitor. I''m currently self repping as to moving area and will seek a solicitor possibly soon but when it comes to letters etc I tend to get a bit stuck. I do agree with most of what you say though on being sneaky etc and that I will come across reasonable by informing not askign etc.

I always bring my own snakcs with me as iv''e made up my own baby bag with everything she needs init. Just incase anything isn''t bought when I have contact. Nappies, wet wipes etc and snacks and pre sterilised bottles. The pen on her hands was minimal at best as I had already tried to get the majority of it of her as I knew she would say something. So her email saying she was washing her for hours was nothing but ludicrous.

Also this isn''t in the contact order but when talking with my EX''s sol at court she said to me if any contact ont he saturday inn''t provided that it would be made up another time.

So really my underlying fear is that my EX will just simply cancel the contact on my daughters birthday and make it up on another day.

By informing my EX of my plans on my daughters birthday may just make her cancel the contact. However it definately isn''t in the contact order even though I agrred to this with my EX sol.

Iv''e written a letter to my EX''s solicitor but have decided to leave the request of the birthday party out atm. Think i''m going to do it 2 weeks before her actual birthday. I feel informing my EX now only gives her time to come up with some excuse why I can''t see my daughter on her birthday.

Below is what I was going to put would that be appropriate at the time when I will inform them of what I''m going to be doing. The fact I have 3 contact sessions for 2 hours before that also makes me think I can go on about how well contact is going bla bla bla and think it''s time to start introducing paternal family slowly and her birthday is the perfect opportunity something like that.

I would also like to mention that it is my daughters birthday approaching. She will be able to spend some time that day with me. I plan on making it a bit of a celebration and going to provide a cake, few presents from family etc and I also plan on bringing my niece and nephew (Sisters Children) along to meet. I don''t plan on involving them every contact but feel this is the perfect opportunity for them to see each other again. There will of course be no alterations in time.