Weekend Away

Who said I hadn''t paid for it? I didn''t. The arrangements are actually they asked if we wanted to go, we said yes and they upgraded to a bigger lodge to accommodate the extra people. I of course can go anyway whether my daughter comes or not. Please don''t make assumptions.

I also provided a months notice to him.

I am not obstructive or unreasonable.

I didn''t say you were - I said that by ignoring his refusal to swap weekends and going anyway, that is how you may be been seen.

You didn''t mention in your earlier posts that you had "given a month''s notice", just the impression that this was all rather last minute.

So you agreed to a holiday on your ex partners weekend without talking to him first?

So when asking him if he was ok with it you had already gone ahead and booked it anyways.

I''m sorry but imo that is unreasonable.

Yes he''s being unreasonable by not swapping but he doesen''t have to. If you agreed that was his weekend then it''s his weekend.

it''s last minute now because he has put off giving an answer.

I didn''t do the booking. Plus where did I say I had not spoken to him about it in advance?

To be fair, you didn''t mention that you had spoken to him in advance, either We can only go on the information given when people are asking questions, if various (and sometimes relevant) bits of info are missing, it means we aren''t getting the full picture and can only give responses based on what has actually been posted.

You may not have done the booking but they booked the bigger room upon you saying yes when you hadnt gotten permision from your ex on his weekend.

We can only give our opinions on the details you put. You didn''t put you had spoken to him about it before so why would we think you had.

He''s made plans for his weekend with her so why should he change them for you. Like i said i agree he probably could and it would be good if he did but he doesen''t have to.