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09 Sep 12 #354725 by grafter
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Hi all,
Last night after some soul searching,i decided to be the bigger person.and rise above my nasty game playing ex.
As on previouse posts,i asked for and recived advice in how to deal with a game playing ex.
I stopped seeing my daughter thinking it was the best thing to do.
However relise now its totally not.while me and her mam try tp win a power game well more her mam.blackmailing me and daughter.i relise the only one who suffers is our daughter,who never asked or wanted any of this..
I am now just totally focusing on me and my daughter.she is the ine who matters most.
I am taking her on holliday just the two of us,to hopefully mend our fragile relationship,that her mam has fractured,with her silly games.
I urge all out there who find themselves in this situation.never risk the bond if your chilldren,in order to justify right or wrong,cobflict.
There is a song whitney houston greatest love of all that sums things up realy..
Good luck to you all,and never give up,or give in to our estranged exs,xxxxx

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09 Sep 12 #354740 by hawaythelads
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You know it makes sense.
Glad to see with a bit of advice from more experienced handlers of ex harridans you saw through her bs.
All the best
HRH xx

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09 Sep 12 #354746 by khan72
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The more you give in, the more you feed their power/control complex the more they think they can get away with it. Do not feed it. Take the fair stance. You can choose not to play the power/control game as it takes 2 players.

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