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The order will end when your daughter is 18, however, courts do not generally make orders in respect of children aged 16 or older and unless there are exceptional circumstances, it is unlikely a court would enforce an order where the child is 16 or 17. For clarity your residence order is treated as a child arrangements order now.
Why? Because a 16 or 17 year old would have clear wishes, and a mature understanding of the situation and is able to make decisions about where they want to spend their time.
If your daughter didn't have school on Monday - and its common for students to not attend school on days when there are examinations they are not sitting - where else would you expect her to be other than at home? Exams are very stressful, and it is not unreasonable to allow your daughter some \"down time\" in between exams, either to rest or study. While it would have been reasonable of Mum to inform you that daughter was at home that day, you can't expect to be informed of your daughter's every move and she is entitled to make some decisions about where she spends her time, as well as having some semblance of a private life.
My daughter is a registered VP, because of recent events which have had police, ambulance, safe guarding, etc, involvement; so her known whereabouts are VERY important. She was at her mum's alone, until I picked her up as her mum was at work; that is a problem.