Can anyone help please on co parenting and what possible options maybe. I am starting divorce proceedings and my husband will be buying me out of the fmh. He is insisting that it’s best for our 2 teenage boys to live with him.
I have suggested that we look at shared parenting so either 3 or 4 nts with each parent or a week with one and a week with the other. But he is saying this will be too disruptive for them.
Also when it comes to speaking to the children and what they want what is the best way to do this? If we are speaking to them together I don’t want to put them in a situation where they are choosing where to live and with which parent. ( they are 14 and 16)
Any advice would be much appreciated by anyone that has gone through anything similar.