Thanks Ruby, very informative. I am desperately trying at the moment to keep the relationship between my son and his father going but am having to suspend contact as ex has sent our son an email which is unbelievable and emotionally disturbing. I have to think of my son and his state of mind for the time being. If only I could talk to my ex before it is too late, he is going to lose his son.
Dukey,as for yorkshire pudds, light batter and very hot oil!!!