My ex has just removed my son from school early (1hr) to get him before me. she has said it was for a dr''s appointment, but I know she is going out with him. What action can I take to stop her doing it again in the future?
Will school take any action?
Contact is through contact order. Specifies my shift when the boys with me. This is the second time she has done this and feel she will do it again. Really frustrating. As if I went and did it there would be world war three. She put in the contact book that she had booked a show on my night, no request just she booked it and no offer of alternative night. Really frustrated. Would a prohibited steps order be the route to go down to avoid this in the future?
Thanks for the reminder to stay calm. Easy to get drawn in. Have history of false allegations and not going to be sucked in again. Fed up with the prospect of more court, but feel only way. Past 2 years summer holidays have ended up with her on my doorstep demanding the kids after 8 nights. Why do mothers feel they are gods and can do what they like with the kids, as soon as a dad steps out of line the world clamps down on them.
Yes, very easy to get drawn in (speaking from experience) think calm thoughts and focus on the bigger picture (you and your lad having regular contact)
Your comment about Mothers thinking they''re Gods .............. mmmmm I know you''re in a bad place with your ex, but all us Mums aren''t bad eggs it can be easy to think this from where you are right now, but please don''t tar us with that brush. Some of us are quite reasonable - honestly
Frustration.. I have done everything by the book accepted her stomping her feet though the divorce, gave her the FMH, received nothing from the FMH.
Know in the majority mums do put their kids first. My new partner has a great relationship with her ex and the kids are a credit to them both. Just frustrated with my ex acting unilaterally. We have shared residence order but not shared by any means. She even put it in a statement she regrets agreeing to it.
I have a great relationship with my boys and it''s a shame mum is so against us having one