No its not all about money, but Perin doesn''t get a get a penny
child maintenance towards her sons day to day living expenses, but the father is able to spoil him rotten when he sees him.
There is no fairness here Perin, but you have a choice, either end up bitter and twisted and allowing your ex and his girlfriend to send you crackers or accept that your ex is a complete wa**** and use him to your advantage, i.e. get your boy to ask him for stuff he needs, i.e. shoes, trainers, football boots etc.
Use the time your son is with his father on ME TIME - bubble bath, long walk in the countryside, go swimming, stuff that is cheap or free that makes you feel good.
At the end of the day material stuff is just that and is worthless, relaxation, enjoying beauty outside is worth so much more.
I read something Mel B wrote the other day about revenge, she said "make yourself bloody hot hot hot" - so concentrate on you and making yourself gorgeous!
And remember you have your son, he doesn''t and sooner rather than later your son will also see what a waste of space that man is and will feel sorry for him.