I think this is the problem actually if I am honest. he doesnt want it - i see so many dads on here fighting for time with their kids, including my own fiance and it makes me so mad!
He has less time with them than i offer and then calls me for every little thing - Ive driven 160 miles today to find she has gone to her friends, I am home alone tonight, and had my partners daughter calling me at bedtime so she could say goodnight cos I had to leave so abruptly!
He has said so many times to me I am their primary carer and I should be on hand whenever they''re with him, plus deal with school , doctors, dentists etc
I really am at my wits end - I have been seperated almost two years from him and yet he still treats me like his wife - he text me last week to pop round and put the heating on cos he is still staying with the kids on the evenings that he has them in the
FMH until the finances are sorted out and more fool me maybe for doing it !!!