Why does stbx state "my only concern is for my child".......
But yet does he.... .
Make breakfast.. . Lunches... Dinners.. , No
Pick up /collection from school... No
Wash, iron clothes... No
Provide transport to from activities.... No
Give help with homework.... No
Lend a listening ear wen problems arise.... No
Provide roof overhead, including heat, light, food . etc.... .No
Provide the ever increasing need for clothes shoes uniform,...No
Pay for school fees, dinners, hobbies, school bus, mobile, outings, birthdays, xnas, pocket money.... No
Nurse wen sick, console when upset .No...
Get the moods, wen chores have to be done.... No
THE LIST GOES ON.....
But yet his concern is HIS child.
CONTACT is sparse & if something better comes up child is abandoned & or cancelled and returned to me.
But yet his only concern is for his child.......
And the battle continues to get reasonable maintenance provided., Why bother.
I DON''T HAVE THE CHOICE " TO DECIDE, IF I WISH TO DO ANY OF THE ABOVE!.... But it is a privilege to do so.... as I love my child!
SUCH A PITY TO BE SO CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR CHILD... THEY HAVE THE CHOICE!
Here here, I echo your words... my children are out of sight, out of mind with my ex. He has no idea what''s involved in raising them, yet will happily deduct £80 per month child maintenance for 4 overnights. I just cant afford it. He refuses to buy coats and shoes etc as says thats what he pays CM for. Rant NOT over yet!