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4 years 3 months ago #481976 by dantheman
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Hi all
the childrens mother has decided to move house and she has moved. however she has not informed me of this at all and not provided the address. kids have been told not to say anything or to give address out.
I dont need her address but if there is an emergency then will do.
Whats the best way to deal with this knowing that we are not talking and children come via bus.

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4 years 3 months ago #481977 by Jedzy
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How old are the kids?

If there is an emergency presumably you have a mobile contact number?

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4 years 3 months ago #481978 by Bubblegum11
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Ok, so there is obviously some hostility between you and your ex. Has there ever been any allegations of harassment or abuse?
Am I right in thinking that your children are all aged 12+?
As someone with parental responsibility it seems only right that you should know where your children live. After all you have a right to there medical files and school records. You do not however have the right to know where your ex lives. I would have thought a court would grant you this information on the basis that it is in the children's best interest in case of an emergency. At the very least you should have a contact number. Obviously, this may not be the case if there are allegations of harassment or DV. Do your kids all have mobiles? Do you have any mutual friends or family who could hold emergency contact details for you both?

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