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3 years 1 week ago #496296 by Besselsleigh
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Hello all.
Could anyone suggest a way to store the child's docs please?
The court ruled the docs be placed in a secure place accessible on the parents' joint signatures'. Background - complete lack of trust and abuse in the past.
My ex suggested a box at a bank with keys given to me and him. He says before taking the docs we need to get the other's written confirmation, and an unauthorized access would mean breach of the order.
Not happy with it, tbh, considering he does not care about court decisions. I would like an arrangement when he cannot access the docs without showing my signature to a third party. Does anyone have any ideas? Thank you.

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3 years 1 week ago #496302 by WYSPECIAL
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But that's what you will have.

Neither of you will be able to access anything without the others written confirmation.

Just show that at the bank to be allowed access.

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3 years 1 week ago #496311 by Besselsleigh
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thank you. But my ex holds the agreement with the bank, says he will add me as a person with the shared access giving me the power of attorney. What if he wishes to withdraw this PoA? and can the bank say no to him if he wants to access the docs without my signature, as he is the owner of the box?

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