Re: He won''t Leave :(

I''m posting on behalf of a friend, wonder if someone can advise....Please.

Her long term relationship went "wonky" a few years ago, They decided to part, they were nevr married Or never had children, they sold the joint home & she purchased a place on her own which she is more than capable of being totally financially independant.

She felt quilty & took pity on the Ex as he had no place to go, so she offered to let him stay for a short while until he found his feet......2 years & she''s still stuck with him.

She has asked him time & again to leave, but he keeps saying he can''t a££ord a place on his own.She''s even thought about selling her home, just to be rid of him.

Would it be worth her going to a solicitor, get a letter drafted up stating a date he has to get out by, she''s at her wit''s end, she is afraid of him he can be a nasty unit, can someone offer some advise to a poor desperate female, Thanks in advance.

The solicitor''s letter route is the most effective way to get rid. By allowing him to stay she has granted him a licence to stay which she can revoke at any time. If this is documented by a solicitor''s letter there can be no argument over what is expected of him.

Charles