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I'm afraid to take that last jump !

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4 years 2 weeks ago #484625 by Kazzz
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Hi,
You don't mention if he's been paying you rent but I would go to a solicitor and see what advice he can give you to evict him.The solicitor can draft an official letter asking him to leave and then you could apply for a court order to evict?
As you are scared perhaps go and stay with a friend for a while until this is done or rent the rest of the house out and charge him rent too and evict him if he doesn't pay rent? Or as a last resort sell the house from under him and move into your own new place nearby as you don't have to leave the area.
Keep a record of all the intimidation too. It's difficult to make a decision in a situation like this but you must find courage to as it's affecting your happiness and health, you can do it!! xxxx

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3 years 11 months ago #485651 by Blondiegirl
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Have you not got any male friends who could come & visit you regularly?
I don't mean in a \"romantic sense\"

They could make him feel uncomfortable and give him a bit of payback for the psychological abuse he's given you.

I reckon if he felt intimidated enough he'd soon leave

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