Thanks for support, children services have done a section 47 inquiry, and action was taken, my ex for emotional abuse, and i said sometimes i chastise the kids, and denied the incident, with my daughter. Their wad a child protection plan initialated, were emotional abuse was primary, and chastising secondary, the children services, went on to say i do two sessions on appropriate behavior on discipline the kids, which i did. Then the would adhere to resedince order, but ex did not agree. Two further meetings attended, ex did not attend. I signed agreement with services, ex did not. Their us police Intel, that exs son involved with drug dealing. I rang police twice, ad informed ex was taking valium and cannabis. Police just did welfare check. Children services can not do anything else as it is private matter, police can not do anything as civil matter, so in front of judge today.
ex has put in application form, saying i abuse kids, and have restraining order, and threatened to take kids abroad.
truth is never had restraining order, no abuse as services want kids back with me and fully support me, evedince of reports done, no passports fir kids, so could nir take them abroad! Ex when baby was 2 weeks old sent him to live in Bournemouth,as she was not presenting well, took me 4 weeks to get him home..
ex has history of mental health and criminal behavior, had resedince order. With eldest son due to same reasons, drug taking and chaotic lifestyle.
kids say in all reports, want to come home with dad, mum refusing to act, upon it, no phone calls ib 12 weeks, services worried that mum has not taken baby to hospital on four separate occasions, and child had bad rash on backside, and not in appropriate clothing...
so as you can see i am worried as, i working with all parties ex just getting away with everyone.. Kids losing out