What are her proposals for travel for contact and do you agree with them?
Could children live mainly with you and stay at their current school and go to their mums for weekend contact? She seems to think Friday and Saturday once a fortnight is sufficient so presumably she would be happy to have them for that and you have them the rest of the time?
She says it is "open to discussion" but her opener was that I see them every other weekend and Skype them.
So far as her reasons go:
"I want to move to be closer to my family, my friends and my partner [boyfriend of 10 months, not married or engaged, no kids together]. I want to move back home, to be closer to the [national park] and the sea. It enables us to release the equity from the house. I think xxxxxx will be lovely place for the children to grow up. I think this is exactly the right time to do it."
The kids (8 & 11) are vehemently opposed to a move. (11 year old will change schools and go up to secondary school here - already applied for.)
I work full-time so the children living with me weekdays would require kids clubs etc but is feasible on that basis.