Hi folks,
I have submitted a financial settlement proposal to my ex with Form D81 filled out and her solicitors are are asking to exchange
form E. They claim they need Form E to fully consider the proposal.
I am resisting on the basis it is not required to reach a financial agreement via
Consent Order or for her to provide a substantive response to the proposal. I know her finances and we separated 2 years ago. I have also accumulated savings through pay increases, bonuses etc. after separation, my offer is quite reasonable, even generous, based on the advice from my lawyer.
If she refuses to proceed on the basis of D81, I plan to convert my proposal into an open offer and proceed to
mediation, then court if mediation fails. During court processes stage
form E would be required. I also plan to tell her that of I don't get a proper response to the open offer and we go to court I will ask for judgement that the additional costs incurred be to her account.
I don't really want to waste time going through
form E outside the court process with no deadlines/time pressure for resolution ongoing in parallel.
My question is if I have to submit
form E, either voluntarily or as part of the court process, is it based on the financial situation now or 2 years ago at the date we separated?
What do you think of this approach?
Thanks for any feedback.
VIG