Not heard anything for 9 months

Hi I am new on here so not sure if this is the right place to post hoping someone can give me some advise here is my situation:

I was married to my wife for a year and since then we have been separated

She filed for divorce under unreasonable behaviour with some outrageous claims, knowing her she wanted ammo to put out to society so I decided to defend the case as I had lots of evidence against her claims. Finally the judge called us in and we agreed to one count of unreasonable behaviour which I was happy to sign for and the courts provided a court order for the changes to be made. Since then she filled with the amendments as required but decided to add more. So again I contacted the courts to say I am happy to proceed but the Petition was not as agreed as per court order. Since then the courts must have asked her to change it and she hasnt done anything. It is how ever coming up to 2 years of seperation so I can raise my own petition under the 2 year rule is this the best way to go about it ? Is there away of having her petition closed down or should I leave it open?

Thanks in advance

If you want more control over the proceedings it would be best to submit your own Petition. As far as I know only she can close her Petition down but others may know more.

Thanks Lori, she is playing games we have not communicated in the last 2 years, she hates not getting her own way I just want to get rid and start a new life

boredofwaiting wrote:

she hates not getting her own way I just want to get rid and start a new life

I know JUST how you feel mate! Just waiting for the Decree Absolute from mine and I feel that will be a major hurdle cleared in moving on for me.....

QPRanger wrote:

boredofwaiting wrote:

she hates not getting her own way I just want to get rid and start a new life

I know JUST how you feel mate! Just waiting for the Decree Absolute from mine and I feel that will be a major hurdle cleared in moving on for me.....

Congrats mate then the financial pain!!

I''ve had over a year of the financial pain and its not going away any time soon....

It will still be a big step once she has no right to use my surname anymore though...

QPRanger wrote:

I''ve had over a year of the financial pain and its not going away any time soon....

It will still be a big step once she has no right to use my surname anymore though...

They can still use it until they want to change it I think