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Copies of submitted D81/Consent Order

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woodsy_online
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22 Nov 24 #524615 by woodsy_online

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Hello, I am totally unable to get hold of anyone at the court and am acting in person having run out money using a solicitor. My ex harrassed and threatened me to complete the D81 and Consent Order that suited her, after having a panic attack and nearly ending up in hospital I signed the forms and emailed them to her.

She has now submitted them to the court, and will not send me the versions she submitted, which is highly suspicious and part of a long pattern of controlling behaviour. I have no idea if any of the wording has been modified. I need to approve the release of funds from our house sale, but fear that as I dont know what was actually submitted this might be a mistake.

How do I get copies of the submitted documents? Emails to the court have gone unanswered for nearly two weeks and the call centre is a joke.

Thanks all.

WYSPECIAL
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23 Nov 24 #524618 by WYSPECIAL

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Did you do it on a computer?
You may have an electronic copy saved without realising it.

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