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02 Oct 09 #151307 by MissingMySon2009
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My wife petitioned for the divorce. When the Decree Nisi was issued the Court ordered that I pay her costs for drafting the Petition.

I thought the order for costs is just a formality and in practice I can negotiate to pay 50%. This is what my solicitor told me back in May. However my wife is saying that the Court have made an order and I must pay or suffer the consequences. What are my options? In my opinion this is another attempt by my wife to extract money that I don't have. She has already emptied the bank accounts and left me with all the debts.

When the Petition was drafted her solicitor asked me to comment on the Particulars, which incurred costs, but then ignored my comments. I therefore don't see why I should pay the costs of both parties.

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02 Oct 09 #151311 by Fiona
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There is a general court rule that the unsuccessful party will be ordered to pay the costs of the successful party in a case. Therefore with the actual divorce (not ancillary relief or children cases) unless it is agreed otherwise it is usual for the respondent to pay costs. When costs are awarded the respondent has the right to reply but can be ordered to pay costs for that hearing too. Therefore usually it isn't worth challenging the costs, which in grand scale of things aren't that much anyway.

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