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FDR done !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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03 Mar 08 #15655 by escapy
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Hello Wikivorce people,

Just thought i would let you know, as you were such a great help in the past, that had FDR on Friday,
We managed to come to an agreement, after 20mnth of stress.
Am ok with result. Hurt by insults and horrors along the way.
Not sure about immediate future. stbx very, very, very angry.
Already been on my doorstep asking for money back.....will it ever stop.!
My intial thoughts are .. take advice, dont be afraid of the numbers, keep your integraty and keep going.
The most horrible process in the world , after death!!
Will let you know about the future in the future.
Escapy. xxxx:)

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03 Mar 08 #15656 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
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you have really escaped from divorce hell!!
congratulations and well done
from what i heard 20 months aint bad to have all done and dusted
you will probably feel bit of anti-climax soon, but relieved
take care and well done
you have come out the other side and can now get on with your life
i live in hope

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03 Mar 08 #15657 by dukey
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Hello Escapy

Well done and good for you life can begin again :)

Remember sticks and stones can break your bones but a bad FDR can leave you liveing in a cardboard box :ohmy:

I wish you well for the future and hope your x grows up soon


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03 Mar 08 #15660 by BVG
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Hi Escapy,
How I wish I was at a similar stage.

Well done, good luck and happiness for the future.

Look forward to hearing some more from you about thr FDR


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05 Mar 08 #15836 by longjohn
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Gud for you, you got yours the same day as me so I know the feeling!
Remember if the harrassment continues the only way you can protect yourself is with a strongly worded letter to X's sols with the threat of a "no molestation" order - effectively a legal restraining order (no contact, not within 100 yrds etc).
Guess what my sol sent to hers this morning..............! Longjohn

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