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Final Hearing today NEW UPDATE

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7 years 7 months ago #382841 by bab
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Hi Popoliv,

I would like to understand the conditions for the 25/75 split in your case.

I am in a position that my stbx is dragging this own thing out by going to court. She refused to go to mediation . She refused to go to counselling when the marriage wasn''t working...

- Years of marriage
- Relative income, e.g. you earn 3 times more, etc.
- Age of child(ren)

I want to prepare mentally what I am going to "lose". I have put in everything financially since the beginning of the marriage. stbx kept lying about studying for better qualifications but she never tried to find a proper job.

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7 years 7 months ago #382876 by mightyredmen
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Ok no probs ..pm if you would like to discuss.

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2 years 9 months ago #498698 by Rach54321
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If you didn't have children it would have been a different story. Unfortunately children (and rightly so) become the main priority in a court.

It's horrible that she used the kids against you. I hope that has changed now with it being a few years!

My partner is going through a horrendous divorce. Really wanting an end this year - or at least a settlement so we can move on.

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2 years 8 months ago #499246 by Mike29145
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Although you got a mesher who pays the mortgage?

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