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21 Jun 12 #337976 by khan72
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Hi. I self repped. LIP - cheap as chips!

Ex had barrister and her solicitor... must have cost her 6k for that day.

I wanted contact away from the centre. I got it. She wanted to get let off the hook for a hearing.

Now, considering that her set of allegations are very serious, the court ordered a full hearing. My response was that the court had ordered a hearing, it is for a Judge to decide to vacate it.

The barrister tried to bully me but i remained firm. I told him straight "I am not making a single accusation in this case." Further added, "If your client wants to get rid of the hearing, then get rid of the accusations". I reminded him of the facts which were that I was the only one with hard evidences and that a cross examination of his client would yield more untruths. Made it very clear that he was on the back foot. Then he left.

In the courtroom the little git said that his client recommended both parties go on a PIP. The judge was highly impressed. I made a noise and the judge told me to be quiet :(

I remained silent until told to speak. When my time came i corrected the counsel who then accepted his mistake. Judge then smiled at me :). But the cheek of it!

The barrister was such a slippery man. He asked the Judge to vacate the hearing. The Judge refused.... Ooops. Someone wishes they were honest with their dealings with the court :P

Anyway, i got what i wanted (not as much) but we are getting there.

NOTE to all LIPs. Do not be affraid to speak up when a barrister lies. I am affraid they have to own up to "accidents".


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21 Jun 12 #337991 by stepper
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Well done Khan.

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