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capitalise? joint lives spousal order after final hearing

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5 years 2 months ago #465588 by x1dcn
could someone help please

The judge ordered joint lives spousal maintenance after FMH sold

Is it possible my joint lives spousal maintenance could be paid off by my husband ( ex) instead of monthly for life? how can joint lives be capitalised if there is no certain age of death?

Ive been left in drastic debt keeping the mortgages going being cut out the family business

sorry if i sound dumb just trying to stay positive. seeing the other posts just so humbling

regards

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5 years 2 months ago #465590 by MrsMathsisfun
Think they use a system called "duxbury" to work out how much he would have to pay.

Would he actually have liquid assets to do this?

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5 years 2 months ago #465594 by x1dcn
I''ve suddenly gone into panic mode.

he lives with his girlfriend in the other house with no mortgage i have to wait until he sells it to get half. thing is they actually live in her house which he lied to the courts. until he sells it i have no money

the FMH will only pay off legal fees & debts & he''s pushing it to be sold

yes he will have

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5 years 2 months ago #465595 by MrsMathsisfun
As it was a FH dont think you can ask for capitulation until he fails to pay sm and you go through enforcement.

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5 years 2 months ago #465598 by x1dcn
thats so upsetting. he won''t be paying me sm until all the properties are sold. he''s already making sure that isn''t going to happen.
the mortgages for all the properties are on FMH which i live in. He''s planned this all along lied stole etc. so unfair. my legal fees were massive because he created so much work

thank you for being so kind replying

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