I will be attending my FDR soon, May 12th.
It is really about splitting the proceeds of the fmh so asking for any ideas of what I may come out with?
Cohabitation and marriage - 14 years
2 children aged - 15 and 6 years of age
I earn an income of approx. £26,000 and will need to rehouse myself and our two children.
He changed his jobs where he was earning approx.£35,000 to a term time only job where he now earns approx. £21,000.
My pension is very small £4,000 and he has stated that he does not have any pension?
He has been living with his partner in her home (Local authority property) but states that he rents a room elsewhere but has no evidence of rent payments ?
The house is already on the market
Just wondering really,
I can raise a mortgage but i will need approx £160,000 total budget would be £325,000 to purchase a decent 3 bedroom in the local area (i will have to move further which i am willing to do for peace of mind).
He cannot raise a mortgage and states that he will be renting at £1,500 per calender month ??
He has also stated that i need to downsize to a 2 bed
This has been going on for over 4 years now and initially i wanted to stay in the fmh until my youngest turned 18. My ex has harrassed me to the point i had to get an injunction, he now harrasses our eldest daughter and this is all because of the house. I understand your point about it being cheaper and have gone blue in the face trying to get this point across to him , he wants his money NOW. I need to be rid of him finally for my mental well being. He has a solicitor and a Barrister who are awful, I am representing myself as i have no choice.