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12 years 10 months ago #8568 by loobyloo
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hello all
yesterday i attended my sols at 1 we walked to court and sat in a room just me and him... we went through his answers and found them very open ended, he has clearly lied and hidden money.
My sol and his barrister kept going back and forth with each of our proposals not accepted.
My sol and his barrister went into dj at 4pm advised them of what he thought , which his barrister was not pleased
as there is 100k debt albeit in my name, and his reluctance to sm,
the judge directed to us that 50 50 of assets pension sharing sm and clearly not case for clean break!! suppose was in my favour, he also asked would we go for 2nd fdr... by which time both my sol and his hms bismark decided against.. as in her words... too many unknowns.
The dj is only one in the court and said he had de barred himself from this case as he had expressed open opinion or something like that
so the up shot is ... more evidence from both sides, questions and directions.... and now AFTER BLOODY EASTER!!!!!! a 2 day hearing in front of full time judge in Liverpool not same place as all other hearings.
At 440pm left court in no mood to analyse days proceedings with my sol so basically still unsure
the judge also strongly advised we try to settle before fh ..fat chance of that as he making out got nothing accusing me of co habiting (i house share)
So looks like a bleak old christmas but hey ill have a good one next year and got my 2 beautiful children to keep me going
regards to you all and thanks for good wishes
Just thank god still got me wiki to help me through the next few months again
love a more positive looby
and hey i never lost it once
xx

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12 years 10 months ago #8571 by gone1
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Hi looby. Well at least you had the fdr. Divorce is shite huh? Glad you kept your cool. Keep your chin up until Easter. Its not that far away and you have come this far. Only a little further. Chris

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12 years 10 months ago #8576 by Specialdad
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Hey loob

Have a long soak and take up yoga and do some deep breathing exercises but not the type that some blokes do!!!

Chin up SD ;)

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12 years 10 months ago #8577 by maggie
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Congrats on getting through FDR torture -
and with the star prize : a DJ recommendation of 50 50 of assets pension sharing and sm
You can use that to pressure your ex to agree a settlement without going back for more FDR?
I wonder what the average wait is now for court hearings for divorce?

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12 years 10 months ago #8591 by sexysadie
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Well done, Looby, and Maggie is right, that's a pretty good recommendation.

Sadie

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12 years 10 months ago #8617 by Fiona
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Well at least you have that behind you, it's a step in the right direction and there were no locked horns or flying wigs! Just hang on in there.:P

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12 years 10 months ago #8627 by loobyloo
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Thanks all
fiona no not yet ha ha
I just hope that they uncover all monies gone missing (as gifts etc) since july
I have been so honest yet need not of been perhaps
just play the waiting game now
looby

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