First hearing

it is my first hearing today at 11.30 will let you know how i got on. thanks for all the support on wikivorce

Best of luck later soulman. You have had a rough ride and come a very long way. Hope the balance is redressed for you.
Onwards and upwards!
Mike

wishing your luck and good fortune. This is where the truth will out and you will begin to benefit.
Forward with faith and truth

had to give her £13000,(30%) i got everything for that, house furniture, car, caravan. have to re mortgage to pay off debts but its only put it up £100 a month. i used to put £20 a week in a personal account for her so in theory i have got it all for £5 a week

Hi soulmanuk,
Great news, justice has prevailed. I am so glad for you. Now you can start to live your life. It will only get better.

Good luck

Hello Soulman

Glad to hear the nightmare that is called divorce is over for you. We have our first hearing on Monday and wondered if you could tell me a little bit more about the process? My partner's ex still hasn't submitted the 12 months bank statements, so we're going in a little bit blind. But any info you could give would definitely help with the sleepless nights!

Thanks very much.

PS. I promise to post all the details of our case when its all over and hopefully that'll help someone else.What a nightmare though!

Mamacita,

Unless you can come to an amicable agreement, which I take it you can't, otherwise you wouldn't be going to court, I would imagine if she still doesn't provide the bank statements at the 1st Appointment it will just be put to an FDR at a later date, with the judge giving orders for any outstanding documents to be filed by a certain date. This is what happened to me, as my x failed to provide relevant documents prior to 1st Appointment. There are many others on here who will tell you the exact same, the First Appointment is usually all a big anti-climax, sorry.

Regards, Sarah