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What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.
The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.
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Position
It is my belief that the Prohibited Steps Order has been breached. I believe the Respondent’s property in [locality] has been vacated as part of a deliberate plan to move house without my knowledge or the consent of myself or the court.
The Respondent has refused to disclose the address of her new property to me despite being questioned directly on the matter in oral evidence. She suggested to counsel immediately after that hearing that it was her intention to move regardless of the PSO.
I believe that the Respondent has reduced, rearranged or cancelled contact over the last month in order to obfuscate her movements in moving house. I also believe that I was instructed to wait at the end of the driveway of the property in order to keep me from noticing that the house was being vacated. The curtains have been drawn at every handover for the last month.
The Respondent has not, to my knowledge, registered [child] in nursery education in [locality]. A recording was made on [date 1] that neither party would register [child] in nursery education pending the outcome of the contested hearing. This recording was dismissed/voided in the order of [date 2] to allow [child] to attend nursery. The judgement made on [date 2] by Magistrates clearly states “We believe he will be able to attend a nursery in [locality].”
I therefore submit that it was the intention of the Magistrates that [child] be registered in education which he is entitled to and would clearly benefit from.
I am seeking the immediate return of [child] to [locality], either in the care of the Respondent Mother or for Residence to be transferred in the interim. Should Residence of [child] remain with the Respondent Mother I would seek independent (i.e. police) evidence that the house where [child] is living is suitable and habitable, as I believe it has been vacated.
I also seek direction that [child] be registered in a nursery in [locality]. Issues relating to [child''s] speech and development have been raised by me in Statement, as well as by CAFCASS in their report. I believe that [child''s] continued isolation from other children does not benefit him and keeping him away from nursery education will prevent him accessing the help and assistance he requires in relation to his speech.
Should the court not feel it appropriate to make a further order in relation to the PSO, I ask that the court enforce the existing order for contact by way of penal notice and/or Suspended Residence Order.
Finally, should the court be satisfied that the existing PSO has not been breached I would seek an amendment to the PSO to remove any ambiguity. I would ask for the order to read “Until further order [mother] is prohibited from removing [child] from [locality] for a period of longer than 24 hours without prior notification.”
I think you have done an exceptionally good job with the wording, I doubt a solicitor could have done better.
1. I think you need a paragraph re-stating the need for the PSO. When the court made the PSO there must have been compelling child centered reasons, it''s worth re-stating these and to make clear that the PSO reflects the earnest wish of the court that your child should not be moved from the locality.
2. I think you need to paint a picture of your current concerns. You describe a child who is taken from their mum''s current home, to stand in an empty house waiting for you to collect him. That''s awful and it is this concern which motivates your application.
3. I think you need to separate the two issues; breach of pso and schooling. Perhaps use separate headings, as it stands I think some of the arguements around schooling lose their impact and seem an after thought. You need to make clear that you feel starting nursery is crucially important, especially given the developemental delays. The fact that CAFCASS seem supportive is a bonus.
4. In respect to breaches of contact you would need to state the dates when court ordered contact failed to occur.
School Concerns
The Respondent has not, to my knowledge, registered [child] in nursery education in [locality 1]. A recording was made on [Date 1] that neither party would register [child] in nursery education pending the outcome of the contested hearing. This recording was dismissed/voided in the order of [date 2] to allow [child] to attend nursery. The judgement made on [date 2] by Magistrates clearly states “We believe he will be able to attend a nursery in [locality 1].”
I therefore submit that it was the intention of the Magistrates that [child] be registered in education which he is entitled to and would clearly benefit from.
I seek Direction that [child] be registered in a nursery in [locality 1]. Issues relating to [child''s] speech and development have been raised by me in Statement, as well as by CAFCASS in their report. I believe that [child''s] continued isolation from other children does not benefit him and keeping him away from nursery education will prevent him accessing the help and assistance he requires in relation to his speech.
Prohibited Steps Order Concerns
It is my belief that the Prohibited Steps Order has been breached. I believe the Respondent’s property in [locality 1] has been vacated as part of a deliberate plan to move house without my knowledge or the consent of myself or the court.
The Respondent has refused to disclose the address of her new property to me despite being questioned directly on the matter in oral evidence on [date 2]. She suggested to counsel immediately after that hearing that it was her intention to move regardless of the PSO.
I believe that the Respondent has reduced, rearranged or cancelled contact over the last month in order to obfuscate her movements in moving house. I also believe that I was instructed to wait at the end of the driveway of the property in order to keep me from noticing that the house was being vacated. The curtains have been drawn at every handover since [date 2].
I believe that if the Respondent has vacated the home in [locality 1] the situation is likely to be extremely confusing for [child] and eliminates the stability that he clearly needs. [child] will now have 3 ‘homes’, one of which he will only attend for brief periods at handovers and perhaps for a single night preceding the Friday handover. The house is, in my belief, largely empty and may lack necessary equipment for his needs. It also means a significant burden of travel on [child].
The events of this weekend show that [mother] is unable to appropriately maintain contact if she were to live in [locality 2]. The Respondent becoming ill prevented court ordered contact from taking place to the detriment of [child]. It is clearly therefore inappropriate for the Respondent to be living elsewhere and reaffirms the concerns of the Magistrates that the outcome of the proposed move would be detrimental.
I also believe that in disobeying the clear instructions of the court that the Respondent is setting a new status quo which will have a profound and long term effect on [child''s] upbringing, effectively minimising the role that I am able to play in [child''s] education, medical care and other aspects of his life. It will of course also have a significant effect on the outcome of the Residence applications presently before the court which have yet to receive deliberation.
I am seeking the immediate return of [child] to [locality 1], either in the care of the Respondent Mother or for Residence to be transferred in the interim. Should Residence of [child] remain with the Respondent Mother I would seek independent (i.e. police) evidence that the house where [child] is living is suitable and habitable, as I believe it has been vacated.
Should the court not feel it appropriate to make a further order in relation to the PSO, I ask that the court enforce the existing order for contact by way of penal notice and/or Suspended Residence Order.
Finally, should the court be satisfied that the existing PSO has not been breached I would seek an amendment to the PSO to remove any ambiguity. I would ask for the order to read “Until further order [mother] is prohibited from moving the home of [child] from an area of not more than 2 miles outside [locality 1] and from removing him from [locality 1] for a period of longer than 24 hours without prior notification.”

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