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worst day of my life.got home fro!m work monday only to find my font door kicked outwards? all our belongings gone thought it was a burgulary! then someone one turned up with an envelope explaining he was from the court? and I should read it? so I did and I did try but couldnt understand what it itwas about..he had to read itand explained that she had gone with kids.moved away and I need to appear:blink: in court two days later..my life and breathing stopped at this moment....she had applied for a non molestation order because of me having used violence? we argue yes but doesnt everyone?im very laid back and she was theviolent one one always degrading me hitting me etc.never put my hand near her only to restrain her.she even smashed a pint glass in my face and then told thepolice I attacked her in pub where I had witnesses.i went to order a taxi at time! abuse from her went on for a while infact years but mainly mentally.shewas my life and we had children so I chose to put up with it...but now she has made al these aligations against me and there is no evidece of brusing? any marks''pictures or docs or hospital reports stating any sort of injury? ive been the victim here for years and all she has done is lied to the police,court,and womans aid.i accepted the non mol just tomake a deal to see my children asapwas it the right choice.ivejust been stitched up and now she has gone on benifits to what a waste.but not on my 3 and 5yr old.they are my life and all this needs to stay focused for them.i would still have her back tomorrow but friendsand family say I need help if I do.i love her and wantto keep the family together.i was also arranging to buy a biggerhouse .oh well I cant turn clocks but at least igot access to my children and I will go for more.deal was I accept orit will become messyand it will prolong the time I get to see my kids.

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