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OMG! ANOTHER ADJOURNMENT???? FH

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04 Oct 07 #4337 by Louise11
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OMG!

Just an update.
Court has rang, Judge wants me at a hearing 12pm Monday to look at my application to be an Intervenor! Whatever the outcome from that, it may be that the FH (listed for 2pm) between my husband and his ex wife may have to be adjourned. (AGAIN!!)
Whilst I dont care as it means his ex will have to travel yet again, probably her 15th time, 150miles to the Court.
I want an end to all this! Where or what the hell do I do?
Her solicitors have just rang, she will not accept any offer we make????? No counter offer or anything and she will see us in court Tuesday 10am! (baring in mind the hearing is 2pm MONDAY??????? We shall have to wait and see!
Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I could scream!

Kind ones,
One frustrated nearly loopy lou!

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04 Oct 07 #4339 by Sera
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Assuming though, that the 2pm COULD still go ahead!?

Commiserations Louise, it seems I'm in the the long-haul also. My divorce will probably take three times longer than the actual time of marriage.

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05 Oct 07 #4348 by TMax
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Feel for you louise my X wanted to bring case forward or put back was told no. I know the reason :-)she gets her money that day and will want to visit the place of golden amber enjoyment.

So today X may of manged to put herself out of it all together now :-)

Was at hospital today and on return was confronted with the police in my house, every single window in the front of the house smashed, the police had in there cells the two culprits who broke them, drugged up vandals I assumed but no as next door was so excited she jumped in, "it your X she and her man broke them, woman was escorted away. God.

So police explain that both parties were feeling under the weather ( issed)and when asked what they were doing tried to say that they had lost the keys and were trying to get in, the police were informed by next door on the phone that X was no longer living here. So was asked if I wanted to press charges "your !"£$%^& right I do, so they are in the nick for the night. ma I concerned Mmmm excuse me while I pick myself up LOL.

but the day afternoon wore on and things were getting to me as the night set in looking at boarded up windows my heart dropped and dropped. now IM tired and need sllep but my head keeps me awake.

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05 Oct 07 #4362 by TMax
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Bloody heck louise are we twins

Do we have the same judge and sols :angry:phone call from my sol.

IM sitting here my heart sunk into my stomach. Sol just called and case has been canceled due to clerical error.

While I was with Sol and barrister in yesterday meeting I asked from what you have on file and my reading it, it appears you are only talking about 1 pension does the letter from the pensions people cover both, whats happening with the other.

look of puzzlment from sol suprise from Barrister,I thouht kn hell shes cocked up, and lo and behold just then apologies as due to clerical error the second part of the info has been misplaced and will take 10 days to proccess.

Anyway big sighhhhhhhhh change tac.

IM sitting here my heart sunk into my stomach. just after you left Sol called and case has been canceled due to clerical error.

While I was with Sol and barrister in yesterdays meeting I asked from what you have on file and my reading it, it appears you are only talking about 1 pension does the letter from the pensions people cover both, whats happening with the other.

look of puzzlment from sol suprise from Barrister,I thouht kn hell shes cocked up, and lo and behold just then apologies as due to clerical error the second part of the info has been misplaced and will take 10 days to proccess.

Anyway big sighhhhhhhhh change tac.

instead off jumping off cliff ill use luaghing gas :-(

Only joking IM not the kind of nut who cracks and jumps heheh or does anything daft :-)

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05 Oct 07 #4368 by SethWC
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Yippee its not just me

I had FH yesterday at 3pm

ex no show again then 3.05pm judge notifies clerk adjourn as he had a busy day - now wait til Jan 07 - what a wonderful system

If I was too busy would judge have been understanding????

:woohoo:

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05 Oct 07 #4371 by dun
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Hope it all gets sorted for you Louise, Skylord and Seth.

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05 Oct 07 #4372 by TMax
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That would be a nice thought I would love that to be the way hehe but unfortunately you get the situation of person not being represented and they come back for bite of cherry

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