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23 Oct 07 #5184 by hopeful1
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i have been married 28 year and separated for one and half.my x to be has been dragging out the divorce for the last year and now wants the petition amended by deleting everything and putting 3 new things for unreasonable behaviour.he says i can just write to court and cancel hearing for defended divorce saying i no longer want to petition on those points but wish to do so on 3 new ones which he will not defend.is it that simple
he also says we can agree finances an dont need Consent Order.is he taking me for a ride

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24 Oct 07 #5190 by gone1
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Sounds like it. Whats the point of ammending the pettion for this? My ex ammended hers becuase she forgot to put her children on it!!! I signed off on it becuase I didnt want to start again. It can be done but whats the point? You can more or less say what you want in UB and what does it matter? Some people are just plain daft. I would push for the order as promises are made to be broken. Chris.

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24 Oct 07 #5193 by Camberwick green
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I agree wth ChrisM, this is my second Divorce on he grounds of unreasonable behavior and I have been threatened with a defence of 'my' affair, he knos he can only throw mud this point and I will not take the blame. Dont back down on a promise of an easy settlement, it is still only one persons word against another

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24 Oct 07 #5201 by tiesys
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What's the point in changing the reasons? It's just a waste of time and money. UB can basically be for anything that YOU find unreasonable. If he wants to "defend" then let him. The outcome will be no different.

y advice would be don't believe a word form your ex. Once you are at this stage it is highly unlikely that they will be doing anything to benefit you!!!

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