i have recieved my Decree Absolute even though no arrangements for children have been made nor the Clean Break agreement i asked for. this is because my ex's solicitors sent an order in april last year to my solicitors, who at the time werent representing me as i owed them too much money. they are stating that they never recieved the order. im in court tomorrow to see about getting my absolute declined until i can see my daughter.... where do i start????