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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Court 6122 topics

Discuss divorce and the family law courts. Do we have to go to court? How much does it cost? What do I need to prepare for each court hearing?
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Court preparation 1953 topics

Discussion about preparing for court hearings, whether it is related to the Divorce Petition, Ancillary Relief or Child Contact/Residency.
Re: Form A - Advice
by Chris82
01 Sep 25

Court outcomes 1260 topics

Discuss the outcome of divorce court hearings. How did it go? What happened? What result did you get? Share your experiences and help others.
False Statement, Medical Lies ...
by Khione
01 Apr 25

Self Representation 1504 topics

Discussion on Self Representation in divorce court, also know as being a Litigant In Person. What is the process? What paperwork do you need to prepare?
Re: Form E anyone got a better ver ...
by herewegoagain!
08 Mar 25

Court Fees 291 topics

Court Fees
Re: payment of court fees
by jihiway249
09 May 25
Subject Replies / Latest
Court order: picking up kids from school OK?
I’m the applicant father.

My ex-wife is the respondent mother.

There was a final court hearing.

Here is the schedule:
Latest 05 Jun 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:3
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Latest by rubytuesday
05 Jun 19
Court order: picking up kids from school OK? ¡¡¡
I’m the applicant father.

My ex-wife is the respondent mother.

There was a final court hearing.

Here is the schedule:
Replies:0
:885

Don't agree with consent order wording.
Hi, can anybody advise me on this please.

I was in court yesterday and eventually a consent order for an occupation order and CAO were discussed.
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09 May 19, by Andynumpty
Latest 31 May 19 by michael007
Replies:5
:708
Latest by michael007
31 May 19
Financial court timescales
Hi,
Form E submitted and first appointment is on July 1st. Can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take to get to the final hearing? ...
26 May 19, by gmail216
Latest 27 May 19 by Cheesestring
Replies:3
:521
Latest by Cheesestring
27 May 19
laws about using child court docs in another case
Dear All.

my ex included in his evidence for his stay to our divorce in UK - high court papers in relation to an abduction case of one of my children f ...
24 May 19, by auntieapple
Replies:0
:448

Cancelling a divorce petition
Hi,

How can my partner cancel her divorce petition. no papers have been served. ...
27 Apr 19, by Bezy
Latest 29 Apr 19 by .Charles
Replies:1
:549
Latest by .Charles
29 Apr 19
D80E form
Please advice, a solicitor signed the "Acknowledgement of Service form" on behalf of spouse, which box would I mark to identify her signature. just co ...
13 Apr 19, by sholatunde
Replies:0
:597

Applicant/ Respondent
Hi
I am just filling in form A
Originally i was the respodent on the court form
But as i am now applying to the courts for financial application
...
07 Apr 19, by fresh start
Latest 08 Apr 19 by fresh start
Replies:4
:542
Latest by fresh start
08 Apr 19
Final hearing Narrative statement
My stbx and I had to provide a Narrative statement for the courts with our final hearing in the next few months. I filed mine through my solicitor to the court. ...
03 Apr 19, by HUGO58
Replies:0
:671

Non-molestation/Occupation Order Advice!
I've received an email from ex's solictor today informing me of a non-molestation/occupation order for next tuesday 19th march, and been asked to conf ...
15 Mar 19, by Andynumpty
Latest 28 Mar 19 by Andynumpty
Replies:7
:1285
Latest by Andynumpty
28 Mar 19
Costs for 5yr separation divorce.
Who would normally pay for court and legal costs on a none contested 5 year separation divorce? I am being told by my wife's solicitors that I should agree ...
26 Mar 19, by London man
Latest 28 Mar 19 by .Charles
Replies:2
:648
Latest by .Charles
28 Mar 19
Breach of an undertaking
Posted a thread some time ago about my ex-partner's behaviour. It escalated so much I eventually got an undertaking from her through the family courts not ...
26 Mar 19, by 99GreenBottles
Replies:0
:589

Can I pull out from financial order approved by ju
Hi, do you know if I can pull out from financial order we agreed yesterday at FDR and that the judge has approved? It was a standard form with hand written note ...
20 Mar 19, by Lin325
Latest 22 Mar 19 by Lin325
Replies:7
:1287
Latest by Lin325
22 Mar 19
Breach of Court Order
I finally completed my divorce in December following a clean break order.

My ex husband only stipulated a few items he wanted from the house and these ...
15 Mar 19, by joebloggs45
Latest 19 Mar 19 by joebloggs45
Replies:4
:606
Latest by joebloggs45
19 Mar 19
18 Mar 19, by Haz23
Latest 19 Mar 19 by Haz23
Replies:2
:568
Latest by Haz23
19 Mar 19
New contact order broken within days
Hearing this week.

Court declined to enforce existing order after multiple breaches, as ex was at least engaging to a degree. Fair enough, I agree wit ...
16 Mar 19, by MissingMySon2009
Latest 18 Mar 19 by MissingMySon2009
Replies:5
:501
Latest by MissingMySon2009
18 Mar 19
Safeguarding report received / first directions
Hello.

I applied for enforcement and have first hearing imminently.

Its a 45 minute directions hearing. What should I expect? What orders ca ...
10 Mar 19, by MissingMySon2009
Latest 16 Mar 19 by MissingMySon2009
Replies:1
:519
Latest by MissingMySon2009
16 Mar 19
Transfer of equity at FDA?
I am in a difficult position with my ex. I am in the family home, my ex has stopped paying her half of the mortgage. Fine.

However, this has placed me ...
29 Nov 18, by nevkimber74
Latest 15 Mar 19 by Geeky
Replies:3
:552
Latest by Geeky
15 Mar 19
Urgent advice please re Non-mol after application
Hi,
So I went to court this morning for the 3rd occation with my ex to get my child arrangement order defined due to ex being obstructive over nearly aspect ...
13 Mar 19, by Andynumpty
Replies:0
:474

Form E or form E2
My partner's ex is taking proceedings against her in the Principal Registry seeking variation (cessation) to the maintenance order. His solicitor has writt ...
11 Mar 19, by alreid1612
Latest 11 Mar 19 by alreid1612
Replies:2
:712
Latest by alreid1612
11 Mar 19
Varying a Consent Order
Hello, having already been divorced for several years, my circumstances have changed significantly and I want to begin the process of applying to court for a ve ...
18 Jan 19, by ChristmasTree
Latest 06 Mar 19 by spinit
Replies:7
:1884
Latest by spinit
06 Mar 19
Court Timeframe
My partners ex is pressing ahead with trying to terminate his spousal support for her. His solicitors talked about fast tracking the application. How long is it ...
22 Feb 19, by alreid1612
Latest 22 Feb 19 by alreid1612
Replies:1
:493
Latest by alreid1612
22 Feb 19
Cross-examining an 'on-side' CAFCASS FCA?
Hi all, I'm in a rare position (for me) in that CAFCASS have actually sided with me in a S7 report! No doubt the infamous Mike Lisser is undertaking an int ...
01 Feb 19, by s59
Latest 22 Feb 19 by s59
Replies:1
:653
Latest by s59
22 Feb 19
Owens v Owens - Supreme Court dismisses Appeal
The Supreme Court have just delivered their judgment in the case of Owens v Owens. They upheld the Court of Appeal's and the original trial judge. The Sup ...
25 Jul 18, by .Sylvia
Locked
Latest 09 Feb 19 by TeamWiki
Locked
Replies:41
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Latest by TeamWiki
09 Feb 19
Brown v Brown [1982]
Can anyone please help me with or point me to details of Brown v Brown [1982] 3 FLR 161

Google is pointing me to a similar named US case instead.
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22 Nov 18, by Proud77
Latest 30 Jan 19 by rubytuesday
Replies:4
:920
Latest by rubytuesday
30 Jan 19
Closing a Consent Order
I have been paying Spousal Maintenance and the Consent Order has a Co-Habitation clause. The SP payments will cease should my ex Co-Habit for more than 6 month ...
22 Jan 19, by hitchin
Replies:0
:580

Which Court forms do I need to submit
Hi again ,
Please Can anyone help me and point me in the right direction to what forms I need to fill-in and submit to the court

I am the responden ...
14 Jan 19, by st3
Latest 17 Jan 19 by hadenoughnow
Replies:2
:564
Latest by hadenoughnow
17 Jan 19
Advice please
Hi I wonder if you can help. I was married 27 years, does anyone have experience of the uk courts. I think it seems I have to attend next month so I'm try ...
02 Jan 19, by ca2706
Latest 03 Jan 19 by loislane
Replies:3
:570
Latest by loislane
03 Jan 19
15 Minute Court hearing
Hello,

I have an ctive application, I tried to sumbmit an amended petition. However judge said I could not and to get the current one dismissed and th ...
04 Dec 18, by lel891
Replies:0
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notice of discharge of ex's legal aid
Hi guys.
I have been sent a copy of the notice of discharge of my ex's legal aid. It was withdrawn a few months ago, so questions

why have I b ...
02 Nov 18, by reabo1
Latest 26 Nov 18 by reabo1
Replies:6
:610
Latest by reabo1
26 Nov 18
Changing the place Of the courrt hearing
How easy is it to change the town the court hearing is taking place and how much notice do you need to give? ...
16 Nov 18, by Szz
Replies:0
:544

Changing the place where the court hearing i
How easy is it to change the town the court hearing is taking place and how much notice do you need to give? ...
16 Nov 18, by Szz
Replies:0
:456

What is an \&quot;Early Final Hearing\&quot;
Hi All,

I have an upcoming "Early Final Hearing", listed with 2 hrs duration. The context is custody proceedings. What does "early" ...
19 Oct 18, by s59
Replies:0
:732

Court hearing to dismiss previous proceedings?
Hi All. Would appreciate some guidance from anyone who has had similar experience or knowledge. I filed for divorce back in 2008 and got as far as decree nisi b ...
22 Jun 18, by Ede
Latest 16 Oct 18 by Ede
Replies:4
:688
Latest by Ede
16 Oct 18
No new court date set since adjourned Fdr?
Hi, I hope someone will be able to advise.

We were due to go to Fdr hearing at end of August. Two days before it the other sides solicitor called me an ...
10 Oct 18, by Minnie75
Latest 12 Oct 18 by Minnie75
Replies:3
:696
Latest by Minnie75
12 Oct 18
How Do I Get Another Final Hearing Date?
I had a final hearing scheduled but with two weeks to go we reached agreement, in open correspondence.

Consequently, the Final Hearing was not pursued ...
10 Oct 18, by FarReaching
Replies:0
:497

Without predudice. What does it mean
The first appointment was adjourned so we had another one. My ex’s solicitor wanted to go straight to FDR.

The day before the court they sent letters ...
12 Oct 17, by Munchkin45
Latest 28 Sep 18 by .Charles
Replies:6
:1778
Latest by .Charles
28 Sep 18
Enforcing a Mesher agreement through the Courts
As part of my divorce many years ago, a Mesher Agreement was signed between myself and my ex. The trigger points in this Agreement have been reached and I' ...
24 Sep 18, by PINKCARDIGAN
Latest 24 Sep 18 by divorced at last
Replies:1
:495
Latest by divorced at last
24 Sep 18
Consent order
My consent order was submitted to the court in early May, still not heard anything, is this normal? Solicitor says the court has said they are very busy and won ...
24 Aug 18, by LSK123
Latest 27 Aug 18 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:613
Latest by hadenoughnow
27 Aug 18
Next move
Hi
So after trying to negotiate a fair split -we have not come to an agreeable conclusion.
Not my planned route - but we will have to go down the court ...
19 Aug 18, by fresh start
Latest 23 Aug 18 by Clawed
Replies:7
:1307
Latest by Clawed
23 Aug 18

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