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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Court 6122 topics

Discuss divorce and the family law courts. Do we have to go to court? How much does it cost? What do I need to prepare for each court hearing?
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Court preparation 1953 topics

Discussion about preparing for court hearings, whether it is related to the Divorce Petition, Ancillary Relief or Child Contact/Residency.
Re: Form A - Advice
by Chris82
01 Sep 25

Court outcomes 1260 topics

Discuss the outcome of divorce court hearings. How did it go? What happened? What result did you get? Share your experiences and help others.
False Statement, Medical Lies ...
by Khione
01 Apr 25

Self Representation 1504 topics

Discussion on Self Representation in divorce court, also know as being a Litigant In Person. What is the process? What paperwork do you need to prepare?
Re: Form E anyone got a better ver ...
by herewegoagain!
08 Mar 25

Court Fees 291 topics

Court Fees
Re: payment of court fees
by jihiway249
09 May 25
Subject Replies / Latest
Decree absolute SET ASIDE- guidance please.
Hello all fellow wikivorcers!
I wonder if I can get advice on the latest sorry chapter in my divorce!
Basically the background is, it’s a 10 year mar ...
06 Sep 20, by Chevette
Latest 14 Sep 20 by Chevette
Replies:4
:1642
Latest by Chevette
14 Sep 20
DO I ATTEND COURT ??
Hi, can someone give some advice or an opinion here please.

FDR court date set, but we arranged a private FDR so it was requested that the court FDR da ...
02 Sep 20, by freddie001
Latest 03 Sep 20 by .Charles
Replies:1
:638
Latest by .Charles
03 Sep 20
Prohibited steps order
Hello,

My son's father has a prohibited steps order on me and it states i can see my son with out supervison but his father is not letting me see my so ...
24 Jul 20, by AliceJ
Replies:0
:470

Guidance for litigants in person on remote hearings in the Family Court
Resolution has issued guidance for litigants in person on remote hearings in the Family Court, designed to help litigants through the court process. The guidan ...
20 Jul 20, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:1349

Self Rep - barrister attacks
So after following all the advice here and written by other legal professionals the final hearing is over as of last friday, I put forward my questions in a pol ...
13 Jul 20, by HereForHelp123
Latest 13 Jul 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:715
Latest by hadenoughnow
13 Jul 20
More Video Hearings for Family Court Cases
A new video platform enabling more remote cases to be heard safely and securely is being rolled out to the civil and family courts, Ministers have confirmed.
02 Jul 20, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:813

How do I enforce a court order?
Simply put, I applied for divorce after 2 hrs separation. Married 4 + separated 2.
Stbx signed it then changed her mind as she wanted heaven and earth in fi ...
24 Jun 20, by shadymike9
Latest 25 Jun 20 by .Charles
Replies:1
:581
Latest by .Charles
25 Jun 20
Free Online Course - The Modern Judiciary: Who They Are & What They Do
I thought this free online course might help and be of interest to some:

Earlier this year the Judiciary of England & Wales, in partnership with Ki ...
19 Jun 20, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:555

Deemed Service
Hi, I'm looking for some advice. I'm about to send form D11 asking judge to deem service as I know my husband has received, he just hasnt returned form. I'm al ...
14 Jun 20, by The Wick
Replies:0
:745

20 week delay for consent orders
In today's law Society Gazette:

Social distancing causes delays at regional divorce centre

The country’s biggest regional divorce centre is ...
02 Jun 20, by rubytuesday
Latest 06 Jun 20 by AshleyM
Replies:1
:1235
Latest by AshleyM
06 Jun 20
Application for financial order - what to expect as respondent
My ex (decree nisi) has informed me that he is instructing a solicitor to represent his interests and has form A signed by a mediator.

Although we're n ...
10 May 20, by ATMSPC
Latest 18 May 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:5
:759
Latest by hadenoughnow
18 May 20
D81 form ex partner lied on form?
What happens or what can I do if my partner has ticked the below box on the d81 form and then you find out he has lied and is going to cohabit?

I have ...
23 Sep 17, by MysteryB
Latest 16 May 20 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:5
:4300
Latest by WYSPECIAL
16 May 20
Official copy of land registry title
Hi there

This has probably been asked numerous times, however I am currently preparing my Form E to apply for a Financial Court Order as my ex and I ca ...
01 May 20, by nelleh
Latest 05 May 20 by nelleh
Replies:2
:758
Latest by nelleh
05 May 20
FDA, Questions and Answers
Hi, I was wondering if someone could help me

Form E"s have been exchanged and sent to the courts and due to the pandemic the FDA hearing had to be ...
05 May 20, by Wembley1234
Replies:0
:652

Self representattion - 1st Court date
Hi,

So I separated from my ex in 2016 and put in a divorce petition in 2018. In 2019 I bought a house using a well documented family loan and ex decide ...
15 Apr 20, by shadymike9
Latest 24 Apr 20 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:877
Latest by hadenoughnow
24 Apr 20
Court appeal hearing rights
Four years ago my husband and I divorced. My husband remain in the family home. We have three children together who have always resided with me.
In 2016 I o ...
09 Apr 20, by Bobett
Replies:0
:778

COVID 19 National Guidance for the Family Court
This Guidance, which is issued with the approval of the Lord Chief Justice and the Senior Presiding Judge, is intended to be followed with immediate effect by a ...
20 Mar 20, by rubytuesday
Latest 04 Apr 20 by Paulav
Replies:6
:1225
Latest by Paulav
04 Apr 20
Postponing the Court hearing
I just have been informed that my court hearing will be conducted over the phone. I worry about such procedure, as I am not very good with phone conversations. ...
26 Mar 20, by Scarletta77
Latest 26 Mar 20 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:668
Latest by rubytuesday
26 Mar 20
Video and Audio Hearings Covid-19
Practice Direction on Video or Audio Hearings in Civil Proceedings during the Coronavirus Pandemic

The new Practice Direction 51Y

The Master o ...
25 Mar 20, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:1014

what is the main region behind the Divorce?
Hoe we know about the lawyer who help us to know about the Divorce? ...
23 Mar 20, by deepakshamr01
Latest 23 Mar 20 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:767
Latest by rubytuesday
23 Mar 20
Important Message Court hearings and Coronavirus
This important announcement was issued yesterday:

Mr Justice Mostyn – National lead Judge of the Financial Remedies Court:

1 First Appointme ...
19 Mar 20, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:785

D80b form
Hi i have applied divorce petition (unreasonable behaviour) in December 2018 that time we were lived together but i have moved in May 2019 at my mom house so I ...
18 Mar 20, by abiha
Replies:0
:862

Financial Remedies Courts – e-bundles protocol
New guidance issued by The Hon Mr Justice Mostyn.

This latest guidance refers to the good practice protocol issued on 7th November 2019, stating that ...
04 Mar 20, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:872

D81 - delayed completion
Hello there

My ex wife and I have an amicable divorce.

We had two years separation but now have to fill in the D81.

The section 7 fin ...
21 Feb 20, by tinmac
Replies:0
:679

Fda - self represneting
I am self representing for my FDA which is in april.
What do i need to prepare myself for please. ...
15 Feb 20, by ThelmaHorse
Latest 17 Feb 20 by ThelmaHorse
Replies:2
:720
Latest by ThelmaHorse
17 Feb 20
FDA
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06 Feb 20, by fresh start
Replies:0
:745

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...
02 Feb 20, by fresh start
Replies:0
:709

contempt of Court
How does contempt of Court work? Do we make an accusation of it or will the judge take the lead. For example, information that was meant to be provided on the F ...
28 Jan 20, by alreid1612
Replies:0
:694

Final Hearing Order made without me
I self represented at the FDR, and I’ve been sent a court order for Final Hearing which was written by Wife’s barrister. At the FDR the judge said the order ...
19 Jan 20, by Newlife55
Latest 22 Jan 20 by Newlife55
Replies:1
:711
Latest by Newlife55
22 Jan 20
Emergency Occupation Order
So, I am divorced....had my absolute recently. I divorced her on the grounds of bad behaviour, which she finally accepted.

I share a home with my ex-p ...
21 Jan 20, by SourceUnknown
Replies:0
:829

D11 form received
Hi
I have my first court appearance next week -for which i am the Applicant.
Along with the notice of application hearing - I have received a D11 appl ...
19 Jan 20, by fresh start
Latest 20 Jan 20 by .Charles
Replies:1
:806
Latest by .Charles
20 Jan 20
Does anyone know about a backlog at Harlow Court
I applied for my divorce in July 2019.
My husband formally agreed to the grounds and was then sent paperwork by Harlow Court August 2019.
That had sent ...
13 Jan 20, by Shellbelle87
Replies:0
:915

Second opinion please
I have a court date in the next 2 months for a final hearing in our financial dispute / settlement. Its scheduled for one day.

However, my ex has not c ...
11 Jan 20, by Gnome2
Latest 13 Jan 20 by .Charles
Replies:1
:678
Latest by .Charles
13 Jan 20
Court attendance
Hi
After 2 cancelled court dates -here's hoping the 3rd go's ahead!

Can someone run through what i should expect on the day?
Ex has a solicitor ...
12 Jan 20, by fresh start
Latest 12 Jan 20 by fresh start
Replies:4
:666
Latest by fresh start
12 Jan 20
Decree Nisi refused!
My partner has been separated for 13 years, started divorce proceedings 12 months ago. He applied online, his ex returned the acknowledgement of service and we ...
09 Jan 20, by Gooberfish
Replies:0
:728

Non Mol/Occ Orders. Served or just applied for?
Hi,
First post, apologies in advance being such a long one:) I want to know if these orders are deemed as 'served' or, if they have just been applied for?< ...
25 Nov 19, by JustM3
Latest 09 Jan 20 by Andy3109
Replies:4
:909
Latest by Andy3109
09 Jan 20
Advice on Summer Hols 2020 please.
Hi,

I had an original CAO which stated me and ex shared the summer hols, 3 weeks each to be arranged by ourselves. Unfortunately my ex was refusing to ...
30 Dec 19, by Andy3109
Latest 31 Dec 19 by Andy3109
Replies:2
:552
Latest by Andy3109
31 Dec 19
Court outcome
27 mths on and at long last a judge who can make a sensible and measured judgement, but I am not sure the outcome would have been achieved without a fantastic, ...
05 Dec 19, by HUGO58
Replies:0
:683

Court Order To Vacate
After 5 years trying to sort the FMH, my ex has failed to vacate the FMH despite a Court order stating that he vacates.
He remains in our property and has n ...
18 Nov 19, by G C B
Latest 03 Dec 19 by G C B
Replies:4
:862
Latest by G C B
03 Dec 19
Court hearing
I hired a lawyer to apply for transfer the tenancy in proceeding of my divorce case, she charged me £1800 pounds and told me it is the cost until the first hea ...
28 Nov 19, by Confused3
Replies:0
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