A well respected, award winning social enterprise
Volunteer run - Government and charity funded
We help 50,000 people a year through divorce

01202 805020

Lines open: Monday to Friday 9am-5pm
Call for FREE expert advice & service info


What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.


Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.


He pays for everything?

  • bridget de jour
  • bridget de jour's Avatar Posted by
  • Junior Member
  • Junior Member
More
18 Jan 08 #11027 by bridget de jour
Topic started by bridget de jour
That was the statement i was greeted with last night! OH 'I AM SICK OF PAYING FOR EVERYTHING, SINCE YOU MOVED INTO MY' HOUSE

Just for my own sanity i would like to quatify 'paying for everything and MY house'

Ok , i did move into his house (and the week i moved in gave him £65K to pay off the mortgage, without even asking for my name to be added to the deeds)

I currrently in (our new jointly owned home) pay for half of the mortgage (he does pay all the other household bill eg gas / electric / house insurance..

then again i pay for all the food, evenings out (when we had them)! clothes (including his), child support (his son), his phone bill and all my own expenses (car etc).

mmmm not a bad deal - him paying for everything

  • mike62
  • mike62's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
18 Jan 08 #11028 by mike62
Reply from mike62
BdJ,
Definitely one of those 'GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR' moments.

Bite your lip, count to ten thousand :angry:and tell Peter Pan to check his mortgage statement. Then spill his dinner over his head, by accident of course.:ohmy:

He has lost touch with the real world. Make him qualify his outburst with facts and figures. Don't let him get away with it.

Best of luck,
Mike;)

Moderators: wikivorce teamrubytuesdaydukeyhadenoughnowTetsSheziLinda SheridanForsetiMitchumWhiteRoseLostboy67WYSPECIALBubblegum11