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Definition of short marriage

  • Mamacita
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20 Jan 08 #11273 by Mamacita
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I'm new to all this, so apologies if this question has been asked before. Can anyone please define a short marriage for me, would it be counted from the wedding day to when the Decree Absolute is granted or would the marriage be considered over when one half leaves the marital home?
Thanks in advance

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20 Jan 08 #11275 by Josh2008
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A marriage is considered

short - up to 5 years

Medium 6 to 11 years

Long 12 years plus

Living together prior to marriage can count

The marriage should count up to absolute as papers can be withdrawn prior to that

Depends on how long separated and how long to absolute...

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20 Jan 08 #11276 by Mamacita
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Thanks for that.
Its a bit of a long story, but in a nutshell they (my other haf and his wife)split up in 1997 and we finally managed to get the divorce sorted out in 2007. We are due to go to court in a couple of months to sort out the house as the mortgage is in both their names.

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